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Title: Praying at work!
Post by: Sriram on July 07, 2015, 05:39:50 AM
Hi everyone,

Some people are beginning to pray at the workplace...in China too! They seem to be more devout than many traditional Christians in the West...!

http://www.bbc.com/news/business-33405579

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Saying prayers with colleagues would feel a bit uncomfortable, too intimate an activity in the workplace for many people.

Yet at Chinese real estate giant Tentimes Group, that is exactly what they do in the boardroom before making important decisions.

Three-quarters of the firm's eight-strong senior management team are Christians and founder and chairman Wang Ruoxiong, who himself became a Christian seven years ago, says that when the company has to make difficult decisions, it turns to the Bible for guidance.

In fact, he goes as far to say that it's not him but God running the firm.

"He controls everything. I am merely a housekeeper of Jesus, assisting him in taking care of the company," he says.

While for many, "love" at work may seem equally inappropriate, Mr Robb believes that a softer approach from those at the top, emphasising that the firm is part of a larger world with wider responsibilities, can be very powerful.

He recalls recently holding his granddaughter for the first time, reminding him of holding his own children when they were young, as an explanation for the feeling.

"That depth of feeling in your heart, your capacity to bring that to your work as a leader, your capacity to develop that capability in the organisation and to celebrate it, to reward it, to acknowledge it, to model it.

"Those sorts of things are part of creating a wider vessel and not a narrower vessel. And to the extent that that's spiritual, then I think that's a good thing."

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A very novel approach...I think. I like it.  Better than the robotic mindset encouraged by western cultures...IMO

And atheists believe that religion is only for uneducated poor people!!!!  ::)

Any views?

Cheers.

Sriram
Title: Re: Praying at work!
Post by: Leonard James on July 07, 2015, 06:14:00 AM
Yes, Sriram. My view is that if you really think that

"atheists believe that religion is only for uneducated poor people!!!"

you are more deluded than I took you to be.
Title: Re: Praying at work!
Post by: Sriram on July 07, 2015, 06:19:43 AM
Yes, Sriram. My view is that if you really think that

"atheists believe that religion is only for uneducated poor people!!!"

you are more deluded than I took you to be.


Well...many of you (may be not all atheists) have said so on here several times. Many atheists have even tried to 'prove' it with statistics many times here.....I remember.  Why are you so shocked by that?!
Title: Re: Praying at work!
Post by: Leonard James on July 07, 2015, 06:30:04 AM
Yes, Sriram. My view is that if you really think that

"atheists believe that religion is only for uneducated poor people!!!"

you are more deluded than I took you to be.




Well...many of you (may be not all atheists) have said so on here several times. Many atheists have even tried to 'prove' it with statistics many times here.....I remember.  Why are you so shocked by that?!

I can't speak for any other atheist, but my view is that poor people. who can see the lives of luxury that rich people lead, are more likely to fall prey to Christian promises of a better life in heaven with "God" after they die.
Title: Re: Praying at work!
Post by: Hope on July 07, 2015, 08:29:03 AM
Yes, Sriram. My view is that if you really think that

"atheists believe that religion is only for uneducated poor people!!!"

you are more deluded than I took you to be.
Len, I know of plenty of people on a variety of forums who have used the fact that the early church was predominantly made up of 'uneducated poor people' to suggest that the modern church is made up of similar people.  Perhaps not poor in terms of money (though globally, there are millions of Christians who are on the edge of poverty), but more poor in mental acuity and understanding of what those critics regard as 'real life'.  Perhaps not uneducated, it that many in the West have high educational qualifications, but are deemed to have a lack of discrimination between 'real things' and so-called 'fables' and 'myths'.  It happens on this forum on a regular basis.

It is partly why I sometimes respond to such criticisms by suggesting that the critics are the ones who are poor and uneducated, because they seem to view life and 'reality' in a flatter, less multi-dimensional way that those with a faith.
Title: Re: Praying at work!
Post by: Hope on July 07, 2015, 08:34:34 AM
I can't speak for any other atheist, but my view is that poor people. who can see the lives of luxury that rich people lead, are more likely to fall prey to Christian promises of a better life in heaven with "God" after they die.
And, in this post, you do exactly what you are claiming not to do - suggesting that poor people have a less acute sense of discrimiation between what you regard as fact and fiction.  The very phrase 'are more likely to fall prey to Christian promises of a better life in heaven with "God" after they die' suggest that you treat them as second-class humans, especially since this that I have underlined is not what Christianity is primarily about.  I'd go as far as to suggest that it is often those of us with enough money to spare who are often the blindest, because our possessions blind us to the realities of life.
Title: Re: Praying at work!
Post by: Aruntraveller on July 07, 2015, 08:38:45 AM
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It is partly why I sometimes respond to such criticisms by suggesting that the critics are the ones who are poor and uneducated, because they seem to view life and 'reality' in a flatter, less multi-dimensional way that those with a faith.

Yes but according to Christianity, and therefore Christians, most of those that have a faith have got it wrong.

And what's the point of following a faith that is false?

Anyway I am pleased to see you acknowledge the weakness of your argument with the qualifier "seem to view life...".

So just an unsupported assertion really.
Title: Re: Praying at work!
Post by: Hope on July 07, 2015, 09:24:42 AM
Yes but according to Christianity, and therefore Christians, most of those that have a faith have got it wrong.

And what's the point of following a faith that is false?
You tell me.  Perhaps they have been forced into following that faith, or have been taught untruths about other faiths.  (And, yes, Christianity is no less susceptible to that abuse than any other belief-system

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Anyway I am pleased to see you acknowledge the weakness of your argument with the qualifier "seem to view life...".

So just an unsupported assertion really.
Well a number of other posters on this board have picked up the same issue and m,entioned in their posts - so not quite an 'unsupported' assertion.  I know that you don't believe that your belief system is any less multi-dimensional than mine, but since you are happy to dismiss the dimension of the supernatural, you necessarily have at least one dimension less to work with.
Title: Re: Praying at work!
Post by: Leonard James on July 07, 2015, 09:57:39 AM
I can't speak for any other atheist, but my view is that poor people. who can see the lives of luxury that rich people lead, are more likely to fall prey to Christian promises of a better life in heaven with "God" after they die.
And, in this post, you do exactly what you are claiming not to do - suggesting that poor people have a less acute sense of discrimiation between what you regard as fact and fiction.

Rubbish! I said nothing about their ability to to discriminate, I simply pointed out that they are more likely to feel hard done by than the rich.

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The very phrase 'are more likely to fall prey to Christian promises of a better life in heaven with "God" after they die' suggest that you treat them as second-class humans,


More rubbish! Nobody with an iota of intelligence would consider people who fall for con tricks as second-class humans. You are just inventing stuff to suit your argument.

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especially since this that I have underlined is not what Christianity is primarily about.

Which doesn't alter the fact that they are very persuasive for the have-nots. 

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I'd go as far as to suggest that it is often those of us with enough money to spare who are often the blindest, because our possessions blind us to the realities of life.

True, but the rich usually want more.
Title: Re: Praying at work!
Post by: Udayana on July 07, 2015, 11:00:06 AM
Hi everyone,

Some people are beginning to pray at the workplace...in China too! They seem to be more devout than many traditional Christians in the West...!

http://www.bbc.com/news/business-33405579

****************************************************************************

Saying prayers with colleagues would feel a bit uncomfortable, too intimate an activity in the workplace for many people.

Yet at Chinese real estate giant Tentimes Group, that is exactly what they do in the boardroom before making important decisions.

Three-quarters of the firm's eight-strong senior management team are Christians and founder and chairman Wang Ruoxiong, who himself became a Christian seven years ago, says that when the company has to make difficult decisions, it turns to the Bible for guidance.

In fact, he goes as far to say that it's not him but God running the firm.

"He controls everything. I am merely a housekeeper of Jesus, assisting him in taking care of the company," he says.

While for many, "love" at work may seem equally inappropriate, Mr Robb believes that a softer approach from those at the top, emphasising that the firm is part of a larger world with wider responsibilities, can be very powerful.

He recalls recently holding his granddaughter for the first time, reminding him of holding his own children when they were young, as an explanation for the feeling.

"That depth of feeling in your heart, your capacity to bring that to your work as a leader, your capacity to develop that capability in the organisation and to celebrate it, to reward it, to acknowledge it, to model it.

"Those sorts of things are part of creating a wider vessel and not a narrower vessel. And to the extent that that's spiritual, then I think that's a good thing."

******************************************************************************

A very novel approach...I think. I like it.  Better than the robotic mindset encouraged by western cultures...IMO

And atheists believe that religion is only for uneducated poor people!!!!  ::)

Any views?

Cheers.

Sriram

As far as that description goes it's probably not too problematic. However, all sorts of questions about equality and rights are likely to arise.

Also, how ethical are the actions of this company in the end? How would they handle the issues associated with lands apprpriated from peoples of tribal cultures? Or impact of commerce and industry on them - eg the various land issues associated with mining in India?

Title: Re: Praying at work!
Post by: jeremyp on July 07, 2015, 11:12:33 AM

And atheists believe that religion is only for uneducated poor people!!!!  ::)


Nope.  I don't think religion is for anyone.
Title: Re: Praying at work!
Post by: splashscuba on July 07, 2015, 11:30:06 AM
Believe what you like, I won't think any less of you. Well, I might a little.
Title: Re: Praying at work!
Post by: Aruntraveller on July 07, 2015, 11:57:53 AM
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I know that you don't believe that your belief system is any less multi-dimensional than mine, but since you are happy to dismiss the dimension of the supernatural, you necessarily have at least one dimension less to work with.

Well before we go any further with this I think you are going to have to define what you mean by 'supernatural'.

It seems to me (assertion there) that you will accept some things that are supernatural for example 'God' - but not others, maybe the Hindu pantheon as an example.

So as your approach to what you accept as supernatural, is by the nature of your belief limited and highly selective, your claim that I have one less dimension to work with is spurious to say the least.
Title: Re: Praying at work!
Post by: ProfessorDavey on July 07, 2015, 12:08:05 PM
Hi everyone,

Some people are beginning to pray at the workplace...in China too! They seem to be more devout than many traditional Christians in the West...!

http://www.bbc.com/news/business-33405579

****************************************************************************

Saying prayers with colleagues would feel a bit uncomfortable, too intimate an activity in the workplace for many people.

Yet at Chinese real estate giant Tentimes Group, that is exactly what they do in the boardroom before making important decisions.

Three-quarters of the firm's eight-strong senior management team are Christians and founder and chairman Wang Ruoxiong, who himself became a Christian seven years ago, says that when the company has to make difficult decisions, it turns to the Bible for guidance.

In fact, he goes as far to say that it's not him but God running the firm.

"He controls everything. I am merely a housekeeper of Jesus, assisting him in taking care of the company," he says.

While for many, "love" at work may seem equally inappropriate, Mr Robb believes that a softer approach from those at the top, emphasising that the firm is part of a larger world with wider responsibilities, can be very powerful.

He recalls recently holding his granddaughter for the first time, reminding him of holding his own children when they were young, as an explanation for the feeling.

"That depth of feeling in your heart, your capacity to bring that to your work as a leader, your capacity to develop that capability in the organisation and to celebrate it, to reward it, to acknowledge it, to model it.

"Those sorts of things are part of creating a wider vessel and not a narrower vessel. And to the extent that that's spiritual, then I think that's a good thing."

******************************************************************************

A very novel approach...I think. I like it.  Better than the robotic mindset encouraged by western cultures...IMO

And atheists believe that religion is only for uneducated poor people!!!!  ::)

Any views?

Cheers.

Sriram
No idea of the situation within China, but in countries that fully support the equalities agenda there would be all sorts of problematic issues here, with the notion that religious worship forms part of your professional job in a situation where there is clearly no genuine occupational requirement.

If people want to pray outside of the formal work environment (by that I mean work activities rather than physical space) then fine, but when in a professional capacity requiring prayer is not on.

But perhaps more concerning is the notion from this guy that god controls the firm. Blimey - so who gets sued if something goes badly wrong. Someone cannot abrogate their responsibility in this manner, and particularly to something that may well not exist.
Title: Re: Praying at work!
Post by: Owlswing on July 07, 2015, 12:25:08 PM
Yes, Sriram. My view is that if you really think that

"atheists believe that religion is only for uneducated poor people!!!"

you are more deluded than I took you to be.
Len, I know of plenty of people on a variety of forums who have used the fact that the early church was predominantly made up of 'uneducated poor people' to suggest that the modern church is made up of similar people.  Perhaps not poor in terms of money (though globally, there are millions of Christians who are on the edge of poverty), but more poor in mental acuity and understanding of what those critics regard as 'real life'.  Perhaps not uneducated, it that many in the West have high educational qualifications, but are deemed to have a lack of discrimination between 'real things' and so-called 'fables' and 'myths'.  It happens on this forum on a regular basis.

It is partly why I sometimes respond to such criticisms by suggesting that the critics are the ones who are poor and uneducated, because they seem to view life and 'reality' in a flatter, less multi-dimensional way that those with a faith.

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. . . globally, there are millions of Christians who are on the edge of poverty . . .

I find this a rather strange statement, more so in the connection to the geogrphical location of the OP.

I would suggest that, in China, the number of non-Christians who are in the edge of poverty probably outnumbers the Christians in the same situation by a fairly high proportion.

Iam also not sure that I am happy with your mention of being "poor in mental acuity" as a qualification of Christians as this would seem to agree with the "uneducated" statement..
Title: Re: Praying at work!
Post by: Owlswing on July 07, 2015, 12:32:50 PM
Hi everyone,

Some people are beginning to pray at the workplace...in China too! They seem to be more devout than many traditional Christians in the West...!

http://www.bbc.com/news/business-33405579

****************************************************************************

Saying prayers with colleagues would feel a bit uncomfortable, too intimate an activity in the workplace for many people.

Yet at Chinese real estate giant Tentimes Group, that is exactly what they do in the boardroom before making important decisions.

Three-quarters of the firm's eight-strong senior management team are Christians and founder and chairman Wang Ruoxiong, who himself became a Christian seven years ago, says that when the company has to make difficult decisions, it turns to the Bible for guidance.

In fact, he goes as far to say that it's not him but God running the firm.

"He controls everything. I am merely a housekeeper of Jesus, assisting him in taking care of the company," he says.

While for many, "love" at work may seem equally inappropriate, Mr Robb believes that a softer approach from those at the top, emphasising that the firm is part of a larger world with wider responsibilities, can be very powerful.

He recalls recently holding his granddaughter for the first time, reminding him of holding his own children when they were young, as an explanation for the feeling.

"That depth of feeling in your heart, your capacity to bring that to your work as a leader, your capacity to develop that capability in the organisation and to celebrate it, to reward it, to acknowledge it, to model it.

"Those sorts of things are part of creating a wider vessel and not a narrower vessel. And to the extent that that's spiritual, then I think that's a good thing."

******************************************************************************

A very novel approach...I think. I like it.  Better than the robotic mindset encouraged by western cultures...IMO

And atheists believe that religion is only for uneducated poor people!!!!  ::)

Any views?

Cheers.

Sriram

. . . so who gets sued if something goes badly wrong.



I seem to remember a Billy Connolly film on this subject a while ago.
Title: Re: Praying at work!
Post by: ProfessorDavey on July 07, 2015, 12:42:30 PM
Len, I know of plenty of people on a variety of forums who have used the fact that the early church was predominantly made up of 'uneducated poor people' to suggest that the modern church is made up of similar people.  Perhaps not poor in terms of money (though globally, there are millions of Christians who are on the edge of poverty), but more poor in mental acuity and understanding of what those critics regard as 'real life'.  Perhaps not uneducated, it that many in the West have high educational qualifications, but are deemed to have a lack of discrimination between 'real things' and so-called 'fables' and 'myths'.  It happens on this forum on a regular basis.

It is partly why I sometimes respond to such criticisms by suggesting that the critics are the ones who are poor and uneducated, because they seem to view life and 'reality' in a flatter, less multi-dimensional way that those with a faith.
But that is surely just as bad if not worse than your criticism of others claiming that christians are somehow uneducated.

And you seem to attribute this 'special' ability to being christian - so are people with other faiths just as 'multidimensional' or is it just those that agree with you. Sounds pretty arrogant to me - unless you agree with me you aren't somehow complete as a person, you are flat and two dimensional. That attitude has a longstanding and horrific legacy, basically the notion that people who don't agree with you aren't 'fully formed' in a way of speaking. Sounds a bit like the ex Archbishop of Westminster who claimed that atheists weren't fully human.

These are so often the first steps to a standard justification of discrimination, persecution and worse:

Step 1 - these people aren't like us
Step 2 - these people aren't really fully formed as people in the way we are
Step 3 - these people (with characteristics 1 and 2) are a danger to people like us and need to be dealt with

From personal experience the moment when I recognised that I did not believe in god (I hadn't really ever believed but didn't really fully come to recognise that fact until about 20) the world became suddenly more vivid, more real. The best way of explaining it was that previously I had been looking at a view from within a building and through a window (perhaps one that needed a little cleaning). My experience of that view wasn't direct and the view was distorted, I couldn't experience the sounds and smells of that place. Suddenly I was looking at the world directly, there was nothing in the way to obscure or limit the sensory experience.

And yes it was both a little startling and a little scary in that I recognised that I was responsible for what I did as a moral agent. I had to develop my own approach to life, my own ethical views. I couldn't simply borrow someone else's.

Now I'm sure your experience is different and I'm not going to claim I know about your experiences (how could I, they are yours), but fro my experience my life became much more multifaceted, more 3-dimensional, more real and actually more adult, when I came to recognise that I didn't believe in god.
Title: Re: Praying at work!
Post by: Hope on July 07, 2015, 03:09:40 PM
It is partly why I sometimes respond to such criticisms by suggesting that the critics are the ones who are poor and uneducated, because they seem to view life and 'reality' in a flatter, less multi-dimensional way that those with a faith.
But that is surely just as bad if not worse than your criticism of others claiming that christians are somehow uneducated.

And you seem to attribute this 'special' ability to being christian ...
I think that you will find that you are the one ascribing this 'special' ability to being Christian.  If you look at the last paragraph of the post you quoted (see underlined above) you will see that I specifically stated 'those with a faith'.  I intentionally did not say Christian, even though the previous paragraph had focussed on Christianity because it was in response to a comment about Christianity - one that I believe to be mistaken (or perhaps intentionally wrong)

In fact, I often refer to 'people with a faith' or 'religious' people, as opposed to 'Christians' because many of the posts use that terminology.

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Sounds a bit like the ex Archbishop of Westminster who claimed that atheists weren't fully human.
I don't agree with said Archbishop - probably don't agree with him on a host of subjects - but since many of the atheists have no problem accusing religioius people of being 'lacking mentally' and other perjorative phrases, I'm not sure that you have a great deal of ground, let alone solid ground to base such a comment.

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These are so often the first steps to a standard justification of discrimination, persecution and worse:

Step 1 - these people aren't like us
Step 2 - these people aren't really fully formed as people in the way we are
Step 3 - these people (with characteristics 1 and 2) are a danger to people like us and need to be dealt with
You and several others here would appear to be following these steps quite well, PD.

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From personal experience the moment when I recognised that I did not believe in god (I hadn't really ever believed but didn't really fully come to recognise that fact until about 20) the world became suddenly more vivid, more real. The best way of explaining it was that previously I had been looking at a view from within a building and through a window (perhaps one that needed a little cleaning). My experience of that view wasn't direct and the view was distorted, I couldn't experience the sounds and smells of that place. Suddenly I was looking at the world directly, there was nothing in the way to obscure or limit the sensory experience.

And yes it was both a little startling and a little scary in that I recognised that I was responsible for what I did as a moral agent. I had to develop my own approach to life, my own ethical views. I couldn't simply borrow someone else's.
I would say that my experience was pretty well the opposite.  The more and more I studied world-views that did away with God, the more blurred and dull everything became.  Basically, life began to shrink and to become monotonal. 

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Now I'm sure your experience is different and I'm not going to claim I know about your experiences (how could I, they are yours), but fro my experience my life became much more multifaceted, more 3-dimensional, more real and actually more adult, when I came to recognise that I didn't believe in god.
Another good example of a perjorative comment, PD - which you don't seem to have any problem with.
Title: Re: Praying at work!
Post by: ProfessorDavey on July 07, 2015, 03:58:08 PM
It is partly why I sometimes respond to such criticisms by suggesting that the critics are the ones who are poor and uneducated, because they seem to view life and 'reality' in a flatter, less multi-dimensional way that those with a faith.
But that is surely just as bad if not worse than your criticism of others claiming that christians are somehow uneducated.

And you seem to attribute this 'special' ability to being christian ...
I think that you will find that you are the one ascribing this 'special' ability to being Christian.  If you look at the last paragraph of the post you quoted (see underlined above) you will see that I specifically stated 'those with a faith'.  I intentionally did not say Christian, even though the previous paragraph had focussed on Christianity because it was in response to a comment about Christianity - one that I believe to be mistaken (or perhaps intentionally wrong)

In fact, I often refer to 'people with a faith' or 'religious' people, as opposed to 'Christians' because many of the posts use that terminology.
Fine - happy to be corrected, although you did refer to christians specifically in the paragraph leading up to that comment, so not unreasonable to ask the question as to whether you considered this to be simply about christians.

Sounds a bit like the ex Archbishop of Westminster who claimed that atheists weren't fully human.
I don't agree with said Archbishop - probably don't agree with him on a host of subjects - but since many of the atheists have no problem accusing religioius people of being 'lacking mentally' and other perjorative phrases, I'm not sure that you have a great deal of ground, let alone solid ground to base such a comment.
Please don't generalise - I am not 'many atheists, I am one specific person who happens to be an atheist. One of the key elements to my world view is to treat people as individuals and not to lump people together and generalise. So I might make a specific point about a specific person, but I don't think I am the kind of person who makes pejorative and negative points about a group of people in a generalising manner.

These are so often the first steps to a standard justification of discrimination, persecution and worse:

Step 1 - these people aren't like us
Step 2 - these people aren't really fully formed as people in the way we are
Step 3 - these people (with characteristics 1 and 2) are a danger to people like us and need to be dealt with
You and several others here would appear to be following these steps quite well, PD.
I can't speak for the 'several others' but where have I engaged in that type of dialogue. Don't forget please that I am in a mixed faith marriage, my wife being an active catholic. I don't think it is really credible to think that I'd make crude generalising comments about christians (or religious people) as it would necessarily imply I though that about my wife. I don't and as mentioned above I tend to make judgements about individuals based on individual characteristics, not generalised stereotyping.

From personal experience the moment when I recognised that I did not believe in god (I hadn't really ever believed but didn't really fully come to recognise that fact until about 20) the world became suddenly more vivid, more real. The best way of explaining it was that previously I had been looking at a view from within a building and through a window (perhaps one that needed a little cleaning). My experience of that view wasn't direct and the view was distorted, I couldn't experience the sounds and smells of that place. Suddenly I was looking at the world directly, there was nothing in the way to obscure or limit the sensory experience.

And yes it was both a little startling and a little scary in that I recognised that I was responsible for what I did as a moral agent. I had to develop my own approach to life, my own ethical views. I couldn't simply borrow someone else's.
I would say that my experience was pretty well the opposite.  The more and more I studied world-views that did away with God, the more blurred and dull everything became.  Basically, life began to shrink and to become monotonal.
So your experience is different to mine - I pretty well said as much in my initial comment. We are different people and have differing world views and differing experiences. I am happy to accept (indeed I did before your reply) your experience as being different. All I was doing is explaining my experience. Please accept it as such, in the same manner as I am (and have) for yours.

Now I'm sure your experience is different and I'm not going to claim I know about your experiences (how could I, they are yours), but fro my experience my life became much more multifaceted, more 3-dimensional, more real and actually more adult, when I came to recognise that I didn't believe in god.
Another good example of a perjorative comment, PD - which you don't seem to have any problem with.
Nope - I cannot let you get away with that.

I never made any claim about your experience, all I did was explain my experience. Where did I ever claim that your life was flat or monotone because of your faith - how can I - I am not you.

On the other hand you made a pejorative claim about other people's experience (quite how you know about someone else's experience is beyond me). And not only that, but you did it in a crude and generalising manner - lumping together all people who don't have a faith. To reiterate your comment was:

'they seem to view life and 'reality' in a flatter, less multi-dimensional way that those with a faith.'

That is entirely different to me describing my own experience as such:

'Now I'm sure your experience is different and I'm not going to claim I know about your experiences (how could I, they are yours), but fro my experience my life became much more multifaceted, more 3-dimensional, more real and actually more adult, when I came to recognise that I didn't believe in god.'

Clearly (note the beginning of the sentence) I wasn't generalising (quite the reverse). And yes I did feel more adult when I came to recognise I didn't believe in god. Does that statement somehow imply that you are less adult (no because I clearly said I expect your experience is different). Does it imply religious people are childish - nope all I was doing was explaining my individual experience.

Title: Re: Praying at work!
Post by: Harrowby Hall on July 07, 2015, 04:06:43 PM
Praying at work.


Driving instructors do it all the time!


Title: Re: Praying at work!
Post by: Hope on July 07, 2015, 04:47:49 PM
Fine - happy to be corrected, although you did refer to christians specifically in the paragraph leading up to that comment, so not unreasonable to ask the question as to whether you considered this to be simply about christians.
I appreciate this and feel that sometimes posters on both sides of the debate confuse 'Christian' - a particular faith position - and 'religion'/'religious'.  I suspect I've fallen into the trap, occasionally.

Please don't generalise - I am not 'many atheists, I am one specific person who happens to be an atheist. One of the key elements to my world view is to treat people as individuals and not to lump people together and generalise. So I might make a specific point about a specific person, but I don't think I am the kind of person who makes pejorative and negative points about a group of people in a generalising manner.
Whilst I'm in agreement with your plea against generalisation, it is often necessary to do so to combat an opposing generalisation.  For instance, in a later paragraph from your original pst, you stated that "life became much more multifaceted, more 3-dimensional, more real and actually more adult ..." (my emphasis).  That bolded statement is a generalisation, albeit hiding behind your personal opinion, as it implies that those with a faith are less adult.  As such, you are no less guilty of adopting a generalist approach.

Don't forget please that I am in a mixed faith marriage, my wife being an active catholic. I don't think it is really credible to think that I'd make crude generalising comments about christians (or religious people) as it would necessarily imply I though that about my wife. I don't and as mentioned above I tend to make judgements about individuals based on individual characteristics, not generalised stereotyping.
Note again your previous reference to "life becoming ... more adult'".

So your experience is different to mine - I pretty well said as much in my initial comment. We are different people and have differing world views and differing experiences. I am happy to accept (indeed I did before your reply) your experience as being different. All I was doing is explaining my experience. Please accept it as such, in the same manner as I am (and have) for yours.
PD, I'm sorry that I didn't acknowledge your comment.  The truth is that I either read it and didn't take it in or my skim reading skills are becoming slightly rusty.  I will happily state that you, compared to several others, are far more objective in your posts - and that comparison isn't only with folk on your side of the debate - but as I have pointed out even you manage to generalise occasionally without realising it.

On the other hand you made a pejorative claim about other people's experience (quite how you know about someone else's experience is beyond me). And not only that, but you did it in a crude and generalising manner - lumping together all people who don't have a faith. To reiterate your comment was:

'they seem to view life and 'reality' in a flatter, less multi-dimensional way that those with a faith.'
You say "quite how you know about someone else's experience is beyond me".  Well, some here wear their hearts so brashly on their sleeves that it only needs a reasonable grasp of English to glean an overall understanding of their experiences.
Title: Re: Praying at work!
Post by: ProfessorDavey on July 07, 2015, 05:03:19 PM
Whilst I'm in agreement with your plea against generalisation, it is often necessary to do so to combat an opposing generalisation.  For instance, in a later paragraph from your original pst, you stated that "life became much more multifaceted, more 3-dimensional, more real and actually more adult ..." (my emphasis).  That bolded statement is a generalisation, albeit hiding behind your personal opinion, as it implies that those with a faith are less adult.  As such, you are no less guilty of adopting a generalist approach.
I'm sorry if it came across in that way but it was not meant to be and I am struggling to see how it could be considered as anything other than my own personal experience. Please see it in the context of the entire sentence:

'Now I'm sure your experience is different and I'm not going to claim I know about your experiences (how could I, they are yours), but fro my experience my life became much more multifaceted, more 3-dimensional, more real and actually more adult, when I came to recognise that I didn't believe in god.'

I am clearly only talking about my own experience and make that absolutely crystal clear by stating that I'd expect your experience to be different to mine, and also that I can't really claim to know about anyone else's (including your) experiences, only mine. It is a little beyond me how that can be seen as generalising when I'd bent over backwards to make it clear that I was only talking about my own personal experience.
Title: Re: Praying at work!
Post by: OH MY WORLD! on July 07, 2015, 05:42:36 PM
That's good Davey. So you will agree that a person who decides God does not exist, is not entering a more adult life?
Title: Re: Praying at work!
Post by: Gonnagle on July 07, 2015, 06:51:45 PM
Dear Sriram,

Aye! Atheists are a right thick lot, anyway on a less serious subject, ritual in religion.

The Chinese are into ritual in a big way, ritual is a way of getting your head right.

A bit of prayer first thing in the morning can only be a good thing, a way to collect your thoughts before you start your day.

Karen Armstrong ( am I becoming boring ) in her book The Great Transformation talks at length about ritual, she mentions Confucius who was into ritual big time, Confucius was fighting against a loss of ritual, rich getting richer, poor becoming poorer ( familiar ).

The rich had lost their way, ritual reminded them of their duty to the poor, they had forgotten this.

So I can see how the Chinese Christians make a big deal about prayer, a useful ritual to start your day or meeting, a reminder.

Hey!! That could be an interesting thread, what is your daily ritual, mines is three cups of strong coffee and cigarettes to start the day :o

Gonnagle.
Title: Re: Praying at work!
Post by: ~TW~ on July 07, 2015, 07:02:41 PM
Yes, Sriram. My view is that if you really think that

"atheists believe that religion is only for uneducated poor people!!!"

you are more deluded than I took you to be.




Well...many of you (may be not all atheists) have said so on here several times. Many atheists have even tried to 'prove' it with statistics many times here.....I remember.  Why are you so shocked by that?!

I can't speak for any other atheist, but my view is that poor people. who can see the lives of luxury that rich people lead, are more likely to fall prey to Christian promises of a better life in heaven with "God" after they die.


  ;D ;D ;D ;D Trust me LJ pound for pound I know I have more cash then you I am certainly not poor and I did not Ask Christ into my life for an  easy ride in heaven LJ you really are Nuts  ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D what a soppy post.

  ~TW~

Title: Re: Praying at work!
Post by: Owlswing on July 07, 2015, 07:08:57 PM
The only prayer I ever uttered at work was for the Goddess to let me still have a job on the morning of the next day!
Title: Re: Praying at work!
Post by: ProfessorDavey on July 08, 2015, 07:49:52 AM
That's good Davey. So you will agree that a person who decides God does not exist, is not entering a more adult life?
Blimey you and Hope really are a bit touchy aren't you.

When did I ever say that - I didn't.

All I told you was about my experience. Do I think others who come to recognise they don't believe in god feel more adult as a consequence. Well quite possibly, it doesn't seem unreasonable. And I imagine there are others who didn't feel like that too.

But I can't say for sure because I am not them and can't know their experiences, just as they can't know my experience. So you'll have to ask them, not me.
Title: Re: Praying at work!
Post by: Leonard James on July 08, 2015, 09:05:44 AM
Praying at work.


Driving instructors do it all the time!

 ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D

Thank you mate for a much needed laugh!
Title: Re: Praying at work!
Post by: Hope on July 08, 2015, 10:01:00 AM
Sort of reminds me of some of these Bible studies and prayer meetings that have sprung up on public transport and Christians from different places along the route meet up and discuss the Bible on their way to work.
Title: Re: Praying at work!
Post by: Owlswing on July 08, 2015, 12:50:48 PM
Sort of reminds me of some of these Bible studies and prayer meetings that have sprung up on public transport and Christians from different places along the route meet up and discuss the Bible on their way to work.

It would be interesting to find out the reactions of their fellow-travellers to these meetings.
Title: Re: Praying at work!
Post by: Hope on July 08, 2015, 12:55:46 PM
Sort of reminds me of some of these Bible studies and prayer meetings that have sprung up on public transport and Christians from different places along the route meet up and discuss the Bible on their way to work.

It would be interesting to find out the reactions of their fellow-travellers to these meetings.
Some ignore them, some join in, apparently.  Some of the latter, whisper it quietly, choose to become Christians.
Title: Re: Praying at work!
Post by: Owlswing on July 08, 2015, 01:45:20 PM
Sort of reminds me of some of these Bible studies and prayer meetings that have sprung up on public transport and Christians from different places along the route meet up and discuss the Bible on their way to work.

It would be interesting to find out the reactions of their fellow-travellers to these meetings.
Some ignore them, some join in, apparently.  Some of the latter, whisper it quietly, choose to become Christians.

I said "the reactions of their fellow-travellers" not your idea of what those reactions might be.  The inclusion of the word "apparently" in your post indicates to me that your comments are hearsay and conjecture not fact.
Title: Re: Praying at work!
Post by: Hope on July 08, 2015, 03:32:33 PM
I said "the reactions of their fellow-travellers" not your idea of what those reactions might be.  The inclusion of the word "apparently" in your post indicates to me that your comments are hearsay and conjecture not fact.
Sorry to disappoint you, but all I did was summarise and paraphrase a number of reports in magazines like Christianity Today.  The fact is that some ignore the gatherings, and some join in.  A further fact is that some of the latter have chosen to start attending church, and some have become Christians.  You may not like this, but unfortunately facts don't lie.
Title: Re: Praying at work!
Post by: BeRational on July 08, 2015, 03:43:35 PM
I said "the reactions of their fellow-travellers" not your idea of what those reactions might be.  The inclusion of the word "apparently" in your post indicates to me that your comments are hearsay and conjecture not fact.
Sorry to disappoint you, but all I did was summarise and paraphrase a number of reports in magazines like Christianity Today.  The fact is that some ignore the gatherings, and some join in.  A further fact is that some of the latter have chosen to start attending church, and some have become Christians.  You may not like this, but unfortunately facts don't lie.

I bet its not many, as the attendances are falling. As the stats by the prof shows, people fall away far more than take up religion.

Title: Re: Praying at work!
Post by: Hope on July 08, 2015, 04:09:20 PM
I bet its not many, as the attendances are falling. As the stats by the prof shows, people fall away far more than take up religion.
Not sure whether the attendance at these get-togethers on public transport are falling, growing or staying static.
Title: Re: Praying at work!
Post by: Owlswing on July 08, 2015, 05:30:13 PM
I said "the reactions of their fellow-travellers" not your idea of what those reactions might be.  The inclusion of the word "apparently" in your post indicates to me that your comments are hearsay and conjecture not fact.
Sorry to disappoint you, but all I did was summarise and paraphrase a number of reports in magazines like Christianity Today.  The fact is that some ignore the gatherings, and some join in.  A further fact is that some of the latter have chosen to start attending church, and some have become Christians.  You may not like this, but unfortunately facts don't lie.

No, they do not, but incomplete or biased reporting does - you cite the source iof your information as magazines like Christianity Today - in this discussion they do not come much more baised than this! To paraphrase Mandy Rice-Davies - they would say that wouldn't they!
Title: Re: Praying at work!
Post by: ProfessorDavey on July 08, 2015, 06:54:16 PM
Sort of reminds me of some of these Bible studies and prayer meetings that have sprung up on public transport and Christians from different places along the route meet up and discuss the Bible on their way to work.
Really!?!

I've been commuting on public transport on my way to work for most of the last 20 years and I have never, even seen a group of commuters engaged in a prayer meeting or a bible study group.

I've seen all sorts of goings on, from the common-place to the most bizarre, but never, ever this.
Title: Re: Praying at work!
Post by: ProfessorDavey on July 08, 2015, 06:56:28 PM
Sort of reminds me of some of these Bible studies and prayer meetings that have sprung up on public transport and Christians from different places along the route meet up and discuss the Bible on their way to work.
Just to be clear I've seen individual commuters reading the bible and other religious texts and study documents - that's not uncommon.

What I have never seen is a group of commutes having a prayer meeting or bible study session as a group.
Title: Re: Praying at work!
Post by: Walt Zingmatilder on July 08, 2015, 07:30:36 PM
I said "the reactions of their fellow-travellers" not your idea of what those reactions might be.  The inclusion of the word "apparently" in your post indicates to me that your comments are hearsay and conjecture not fact.
Sorry to disappoint you, but all I did was summarise and paraphrase a number of reports in magazines like Christianity Today.  The fact is that some ignore the gatherings, and some join in.  A further fact is that some of the latter have chosen to start attending church, and some have become Christians.  You may not like this, but unfortunately facts don't lie.

I bet its not many, as the attendances are falling. As the stats by the prof shows, people fall away far more than take up religion.
Stats are falling for joining virtually anything and I think you're wrong to equate ''couldn't give a shit'' with an intellectual position.
Title: Re: Praying at work!
Post by: Shaker on July 08, 2015, 08:30:54 PM
'Couldn't give a shit' however beautifully exemplifies one of those things (besides evidentialism, critical thinking, etc.) which is kryptonite to religion and against which no religion can defend itself - sheer apathy :)
Title: Re: Praying at work!
Post by: Walt Zingmatilder on July 08, 2015, 08:36:25 PM
'Couldn't give a shit' however beautifully exemplifies one of those things (besides evidentialism, critical thinking, etc.) which is kryptonite to religion and against which no religion can defend itself - sheer apathy :)
Yeah, but it's rife in society and not the sort of thing we should be encouraging, When people stop caring they've given up a wee part of their humanity.
Title: Re: Praying at work!
Post by: Shaker on July 08, 2015, 08:38:58 PM
'Couldn't give a shit' however beautifully exemplifies one of those things (besides evidentialism, critical thinking, etc.) which is kryptonite to religion and against which no religion can defend itself - sheer apathy :)
Yeah, but it's rife in society and not the sort of thing we should be encouraging, When people stop caring they've given up a wee part of their humanity.
Not quite sure how you go about encouraging people not to care sbout something as that sounds like a contradiction in terms to me, but with regard to religion things in society are going the right way anyway ;)
Title: Re: Praying at work!
Post by: Walt Zingmatilder on July 08, 2015, 08:42:23 PM
'Couldn't give a shit' however beautifully exemplifies one of those things (besides evidentialism, critical thinking, etc.) which is kryptonite to religion and against which no religion can defend itself - sheer apathy :)
Yeah, but it's rife in society and not the sort of thing we should be encouraging, When people stop caring they've given up a wee part of their humanity.
Not quite sure how you go about encouraging people not to care sbout something as that sounds like a contradiction in terms to me, but with regard to religion things in society are going the right way anyway ;)
But it begs the question.....what happens when apathy goes out of fashion? ;)
Title: Re: Praying at work!
Post by: Shaker on July 08, 2015, 08:49:42 PM
You get all sorts of nutty shit happening, usually.
Title: Re: Praying at work!
Post by: BashfulAnthony on July 08, 2015, 08:53:56 PM
You get all sorts of nutty shit happening, usually.

We already do  -  it's called, "atheism."   :)
Title: Re: Praying at work!
Post by: Shaker on July 08, 2015, 08:55:27 PM
You get all sorts of nutty shit happening, usually.

We already do  -  it's called, "atheism."   :)
No ... when it comes to nutty shit you're thinking of the other one, with one less letter at the beginning. Atheism is the absence of that variety of nutty shit ;)
Title: Re: Praying at work!
Post by: BashfulAnthony on July 08, 2015, 09:04:21 PM
You get all sorts of nutty shit happening, usually.

We already do  -  it's called, "atheism."   :)
No ... when it comes to nutty shit you're thinking of the other one, with one less letter at the beginning. Atheism is the absence of that variety of nutty shit ;)

I think not -  and you are a perfect example of said atheist ***** ****.
Title: Re: Praying at work!
Post by: Shaker on July 08, 2015, 09:10:28 PM

I think not
Yeah, we know ::)
Title: Re: Praying at work!
Post by: trippymonkey on July 08, 2015, 10:03:17 PM
Well, we now see NO sense of apathy in BA towards others NOT like him !!!!!  ;)
Title: Re: Praying at work!
Post by: BashfulAnthony on July 09, 2015, 01:58:57 AM

I think not
Yeah, we know ::)

Well, you would, being an expert!!

By the way, who's we
Title: Re: Praying at work!
Post by: Aruntraveller on July 09, 2015, 08:25:13 AM
You get all sorts of nutty shit happening, usually.

We already do  -  it's called, "atheism."   :)
No ... when it comes to nutty shit you're thinking of the other one, with one less letter at the beginning. Atheism is the absence of that variety of nutty shit ;)

I think not -  and you are a perfect example of said atheist ***** ****.

Do you think putting ****** **** disguises the fact that you are swearing. You foul mouthed theist. ;)
Title: Re: Praying at work!
Post by: floo on July 09, 2015, 08:29:34 AM
Well, we now see NO sense of apathy in BA towards others NOT like him !!!!!  ;)

Spot on! ;D
Title: Re: Praying at work!
Post by: Owlswing on July 09, 2015, 10:54:51 AM

I think not
Yeah, we know ::)

Your "we" most definitely includes me.
Title: Re: Praying at work!
Post by: Shaker on July 09, 2015, 10:59:52 AM
You get all sorts of nutty shit happening, usually.

We already do  -  it's called, "atheism."   :)
No ... when it comes to nutty shit you're thinking of the other one, with one less letter at the beginning. Atheism is the absence of that variety of nutty shit ;)

I think not -  and you are a perfect example of said atheist ***** ****.

Do you think putting ****** **** disguises the fact that you are swearing. You foul mouthed theist. ;)

For some reason he asterisked the word nutty, which is taking prudery to a level even I've never seen before.
Title: Re: Praying at work!
Post by: ippy on July 09, 2015, 11:58:19 AM
"Praying at work"!

Isn't praying anywhere a waste of time because unless someone, a real living person, can hear you, you're talking to yourself?
 
There's nothing complicated about it.

ippy
Title: Re: Praying at work!
Post by: Leonard James on July 09, 2015, 01:16:39 PM
"Praying at work"!

Isn't praying anywhere a waste of time because unless someone, a real living person, can hear you, you're talking to yourself?
 


ippy

Not always. I have a niece who, when very young, used to play with and converse with somebody that she insisted was there although we couldn't see her. She spent much of her childhood with this person, and was always happy in her company, so I suppose you can't say the time was wasted.
Title: Re: Praying at work!
Post by: Sassy on July 09, 2015, 01:26:51 PM
Hi everyone,

Some people are beginning to pray at the workplace...in China too! They seem to be more devout than many traditional Christians in the West...!

Cheers.

Sriram

How does praying at the workplace make them more devout... Isn't the vicar praying in his work place in Church on a Sunday and through the week?

Christianity, isn't measured by where people pray. How many pray or what they pray for.

The simplest way of putting it, is that though a body of believers may pray together the reality is they pray in Spirit and Truth.
Baptism of the Holy Spirit means a persons life is changed and everything they do works for the good of all as whole in Christ through the Fathers presence with them.

Christianity, has been lost in true definition because of manmade teachings. But the real Church the body of Christ remains with those born of the Spirit who live according to Gods word through Gods power. It does not surprise me to hear the things spoken by these men.

Title: Re: Praying at work!
Post by: ProfessorDavey on July 09, 2015, 03:17:29 PM
Sort of reminds me of some of these Bible studies and prayer meetings that have sprung up on public transport and Christians from different places along the route meet up and discuss the Bible on their way to work.
Really!?!

I've been commuting on public transport on my way to work for most of the last 20 years and I have never, even seen a group of commuters engaged in a prayer meeting or a bible study group.

I've seen all sorts of goings on, from the common-place to the most bizarre, but never, ever this.
Just to keep you guys updated.

Another morning - another public transport commute. And no Bible study or prayer meeting going on during my commute this morning - exactly the same as yesterday, and the day before ... and forever.
Title: Re: Praying at work!
Post by: ippy on July 09, 2015, 06:42:38 PM
"Praying at work"!

Isn't praying anywhere a waste of time because unless someone, a real living person, can hear you, you're talking to yourself?
 


ippy

Not always. I have a niece who, when very young, used to play with and converse with somebody that she insisted was there although we couldn't see her. She spent much of her childhood with this person, and was always happy in her company, so I suppose you can't say the time was wasted.


Isn't praying anywhere, in the majority of cases, a waste of time because unless someone, a real living person, can hear you, you're talking to yourself?

ippy
Title: Re: Praying at work!
Post by: OH MY WORLD! on July 09, 2015, 08:45:48 PM
ipster,
No, but all your posts are like looking at a bare wall and chatting with you is like being alone. Now where is that monkey on a rock? Oh well, I can always pick the lint out of my belly button or restring my guitar.
Title: Re: Praying at work!
Post by: Shaker on July 09, 2015, 08:56:27 PM
ipster,
No, but all your posts are like looking at a bare wall and chatting with you is like being alone.
How glad I am I haven't heard that 43,234 times before.

Oh, wait ...
Title: Re: Praying at work!
Post by: BashfulAnthony on July 10, 2015, 01:14:46 AM
You get all sorts of nutty shit happening, usually.

We already do  -  it's called, "atheism."   :)
No ... when it comes to nutty shit you're thinking of the other one, with one less letter at the beginning. Atheism is the absence of that variety of nutty shit ;)

I think not -  and you are a perfect example of said atheist ***** ****.

Do you think putting ****** **** disguises the fact that you are swearing. You foul mouthed theist. ;)

I was quoting, you half-wit (M43, and others  -  check it!)  The words were those of one of your fellow foul mouths, and the way I made my point was to refer to the words concerned, without using them: accepted English usage.  Learn to read properly, or should I say, try to understand.  I know you are a simple person:  perhaps you should ask mummy for help!
Title: Re: Praying at work!
Post by: BashfulAnthony on July 10, 2015, 01:18:24 AM
Well, we now see NO sense of apathy in BA towards others NOT like him !!!!!  ;)

 :D :D  I think you need to check the difference between "apathy," and "empathy!"  Unless you're trying to br clever  -  but that never works with you!
Title: Re: Praying at work!
Post by: ippy on July 10, 2015, 05:40:46 AM
ipster,
No, but all your posts are like looking at a bare wall and chatting with you is like being alone. Now where is that monkey on a rock? Oh well, I can always pick the lint out of my belly button or restring my guitar.

I believe the Canadian case where there is a tendency for over use of the chopper this can effect the eyesight which in its self is bad enough but in your case it looks like it's even more serious than that.

Have a good day Woody.

ippy
Title: Re: Praying at work!
Post by: Leonard James on July 10, 2015, 06:57:48 AM
"Praying at work"!

Isn't praying anywhere a waste of time because unless someone, a real living person, can hear you, you're talking to yourself?
 


ippy

Not always. I have a niece who, when very young, used to play with and converse with somebody that she insisted was there although we couldn't see her. She spent much of her childhood with this person, and was always happy in her company, so I suppose you can't say the time was wasted.


Isn't praying anywhere, in the majority of cases, a waste of time because unless someone, a real living person, can hear you, you're talking to yourself?

ippy

Ah, but if your mind has invented that person, he/she IS a real living person to you, who is your friend, and stops you feeling lonely and lost. So how can you consider him/her a waste of time?
Title: Re: Praying at work!
Post by: Hope on July 10, 2015, 07:13:18 AM
Ah, but if your mind has invented that person, he/she IS a real living person to you, who is your friend, and stops you feeling lonely and lost. So how can you consider him/her a waste of time?
Has anyone ever done any research into the proportion of children who have these 'imaginary' friends?  If that proportion was sufficiently high, could it not be a indicator that the research that the 'Children - religion the default position?' thread is about is more than just pie in the sky?
Title: Re: Praying at work!
Post by: trippymonkey on July 10, 2015, 07:56:54 AM
Well, we now see NO sense of apathy in BA towards others NOT like him !!!!!  ;)

 :D :D  I think you need to check the difference between "apathy," and "empathy!"  Unless you're trying to br clever  -  but that never works with you!

OOH DEAR Hit a sore point have we???
Trying to be clever isn't necessary. it comes so easily here due to lack of competition.  ;) ;D
ANYWAY - what was this post originally about?
They always tend to become showcases for some here making fools of themselves !?!?!?
Title: Re: Praying at work!
Post by: ProfessorDavey on July 10, 2015, 09:30:28 AM
Has anyone ever done any research into the proportion of children who have these 'imaginary' friends?  If that proportion was sufficiently high, could it not be a indicator that the research that the 'Children - religion the default position?' thread is about is more than just pie in the sky?
Actually I had considered bringing up the notion of children creating invisible friends in the 'Children - religion the default position?' as evidence to refute the notion.

So it is correct that without an overt steer from parents, other adults or society in general many children create an invisible friend during a stage in their development. And indeed this it probably the most common occurrence of that sort - other beliefs tend to be much more overtly linked to societal input and acceptance.

But it is massively stretching the point to suggest that this is evidence that the default is that children 'raised alone on a desert island would come to believe in God'.

The first and most obvious challenge is that an invisible friend is not god - far from it. God is supposedly a supernatural and powerful being, perhaps involved in creation etc. The invisible friend isn't that at all - it is typically just what it says - an invented friend - another child rather like the child themselves or their real friends. So belief in an invisible friend cannot be thought of as belief in god because an invisible friend is not god.

The second issue is likelihood. The invention of invisible friends isn't uncommon - I think stats suggest perhaps 40% of kids create one at some time. But this is no-where near enough to argue that it is the default position, which would require most or nearly all to have one.

And finally I am not convinced that the creation of an invisible friend is entirely linked to societal influence. As children are brought up they are exposed to all sorts of examples of people and things which aren't actually real (in a living sense) - whether through stories, or tuning cuddly toys into loved characters etc etc. So against this backdrop I don't think it is unexpected that the child themselves (who at that stage in development will not have a great grasp of the difference between real and imaginary - that comes later) creates their own character. Some might align it with a cuddly toy or doll, others may do it without the need for a 'prop'.

And finally from a anthropomorphic and developmental point of view the create of invisible friends and other types of 'pretend' character used in role play fits perfectly within the evolutionary driver for the development of advanced social skills as we are inherently a social species. No god required for an explanation.
Title: Re: Praying at work!
Post by: Leonard James on July 10, 2015, 11:52:06 AM
Splendid post, Prof, as usual!
Title: Re: Praying at work!
Post by: floo on July 10, 2015, 12:27:16 PM
When my grandson was two he asked his mother why she believed in Jesus as she couldn't see, hear or feel him, he wasn't religious by nature.
Title: Re: Praying at work!
Post by: Shaker on July 10, 2015, 12:30:48 PM
When my grandson was two he asked his mother why she believed in Jesus as she couldn't see, hear or feel him, he wasn't religious by nature.
Out of the mouths ...
Title: Re: Praying at work!
Post by: floo on July 10, 2015, 12:37:50 PM
When my grandson was two he asked his mother why she believed in Jesus as she couldn't see, hear or feel him, he wasn't religious by nature.
Out of the mouths ...

His mother was astounded by the question from such a young child. He is highly intelligent, but has Asperger's syndrome. On the occasions his mother takes the lad (now 13) to church he will question the preacher about their sermon! Fortunately for him they are happy for him to do so.
Title: Re: Praying at work!
Post by: ippy on July 10, 2015, 01:27:05 PM
"Praying at work"!

Isn't praying anywhere a waste of time because unless someone, a real living person, can hear you, you're talking to yourself?
 


ippy

Not always. I have a niece who, when very young, used to play with and converse with somebody that she insisted was there although we couldn't see her. She spent much of her childhood with this person, and was always happy in her company, so I suppose you can't say the time was wasted.


Isn't praying anywhere, in the majority of cases, a waste of time because unless someone, a real living person, can hear you, you're talking to yourself?

ippy

Ah, but if your mind has invented that person, he/she IS a real living person to you, who is your friend, and stops you feeling lonely and lost. So how can you consider him/her a waste of time?

Because my friend told me so.

ippy
Title: Re: Praying at work!
Post by: L.A. on July 10, 2015, 02:14:22 PM
When I was at work, we often spent the day praying that the boss wouldn't come in.
Title: Re: Praying at work!
Post by: Udayana on July 10, 2015, 02:29:10 PM
"Look busy ... Jesus is coming"

(from where did that come to mind I wonder  ... :o )
Title: Re: Praying at work!
Post by: OH MY WORLD! on July 10, 2015, 03:00:41 PM
Don't need a chopper ipster, the forests are burning all over my province, British Columbia and Saskatchewan. You of course don't have that problem every summer being that you raped your island centuries ago.
Title: Re: Praying at work!
Post by: ippy on July 10, 2015, 04:35:20 PM
Don't need a chopper ipster, the forests are burning all over my province, British Columbia and Saskatchewan. You of course don't have that problem every summer being that you raped your island centuries ago.

Not even to make a fire break?

ippy
Title: Re: Praying at work!
Post by: BashfulAnthony on July 10, 2015, 11:15:45 PM
Well, we now see NO sense of apathy in BA towards others NOT like him !!!!!  ;)

 :D :D  I think you need to check the difference between "apathy," and "empathy!"  Unless you're trying to br clever  -  but that never works with you!

OOH DEAR Hit a sore point have we???
Trying to be clever isn't necessary. it comes so easily here due to lack of competition.  ;) ;D
ANYWAY - what was this post originally about?
They always tend to become showcases for some here making fools of themselves !?!?!?

You seem to have some sort of problem with upper and lower case letters:  or do you just have a trembling hand?
Title: Re: Praying at work!
Post by: trippymonkey on July 11, 2015, 07:05:26 AM
It's thinking of YOU, darling.  ;) ;D
Title: Re: Praying at work!
Post by: Humph Warden Bennett on July 11, 2015, 12:52:24 PM
Sort of reminds me of some of these Bible studies and prayer meetings that have sprung up on public transport and Christians from different places along the route meet up and discuss the Bible on their way to work.

It would be interesting to find out the reactions of their fellow-travellers to these meetings.

Fifteen years ago it was considered very rude to hold a conversation on a mobile telephone on a train. Now they are common place. I have known people talk about religion on the bus on the way to work, everybody else barring moi seems to be plugged into something or the other.
Title: Re: Praying at work!
Post by: Humph Warden Bennett on July 11, 2015, 12:53:27 PM
Hi everyone,

Some people are beginning to pray at the workplace...in China too! They seem to be more devout than many traditional Christians in the West...!

http://www.bbc.com/news/business-33405579

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Saying prayers with colleagues would feel a bit uncomfortable, too intimate an activity in the workplace for many people.

Yet at Chinese real estate giant Tentimes Group, that is exactly what they do in the boardroom before making important decisions.

Three-quarters of the firm's eight-strong senior management team are Christians and founder and chairman Wang Ruoxiong, who himself became a Christian seven years ago, says that when the company has to make difficult decisions, it turns to the Bible for guidance.

In fact, he goes as far to say that it's not him but God running the firm.

"He controls everything. I am merely a housekeeper of Jesus, assisting him in taking care of the company," he says.

While for many, "love" at work may seem equally inappropriate, Mr Robb believes that a softer approach from those at the top, emphasising that the firm is part of a larger world with wider responsibilities, can be very powerful.

He recalls recently holding his granddaughter for the first time, reminding him of holding his own children when they were young, as an explanation for the feeling.

"That depth of feeling in your heart, your capacity to bring that to your work as a leader, your capacity to develop that capability in the organisation and to celebrate it, to reward it, to acknowledge it, to model it.

"Those sorts of things are part of creating a wider vessel and not a narrower vessel. And to the extent that that's spiritual, then I think that's a good thing."

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A very novel approach...I think. I like it.  Better than the robotic mindset encouraged by western cultures...IMO

And atheists believe that religion is only for uneducated poor people!!!!  ::)

Any views?

Cheers.

Sriram

NuLab made all the smoking rooms redundant, it's better that the space is used for the staff rather than being turned into more office space.
Title: Re: Praying at work!
Post by: BashfulAnthony on July 11, 2015, 07:54:38 PM
It's thinking of YOU, darling.  ;) ;D

I have that effect on women(!!!)  Are you a woman?    :D :D
Title: Re: Praying at work!
Post by: trippymonkey on July 11, 2015, 08:55:44 PM
WHAT ?!?!? Abject FEAR ?!!?!?!?
Title: Re: Praying at work!
Post by: BashfulAnthony on July 12, 2015, 02:09:55 PM
WHAT ?!?!? Abject FEAR ?!!?!?!?

Just asking!
Title: Re: Praying at work!
Post by: trippymonkey on July 12, 2015, 05:49:21 PM
Got piccies of yourself anywhere? At your best or a reasonable one?
Title: Re: Praying at work!
Post by: BashfulAnthony on July 12, 2015, 09:01:12 PM
Got piccies of yourself anywhere? At your best or a reasonable one?

Not much of one for pics, unfortunately.  The only good picture of my Rusty was given to me by a neighbour, after he died.  Just think of Paul McCartney, and you're quite near...     ::)
Title: Re: Praying at work!
Post by: trippymonkey on July 12, 2015, 09:05:50 PM
Is 'my Rusty' a euphemism? LOL
Title: Re: Praying at work!
Post by: BashfulAnthony on July 12, 2015, 09:08:20 PM
Is 'my Rusty' a euphemism? LOL

No, he was my precious dog, who died last August.
Title: Re: Praying at work!
Post by: trippymonkey on July 12, 2015, 09:09:36 PM
AAH Was he 'old'?
Title: Re: Praying at work!
Post by: BashfulAnthony on July 12, 2015, 09:13:25 PM
AAH Was he 'old'?

He was eight, and his kidneys failed, and the vet didn't spot his condition, though he had been under their care for some time.  He was a 54 kilo, gentle giant, and I miss him like nothing on earth.
Title: Re: Praying at work!
Post by: trippymonkey on July 12, 2015, 09:15:09 PM
Anyone who's ever had a cat or a dog knows EXACTLY how you feel.  :(
Best Wishes.
Title: Re: Praying at work!
Post by: BashfulAnthony on July 12, 2015, 09:15:53 PM
Anyone who's ever had a cat or a dog knows EXACTLY how you feel.  :(
Best Wishes.

Thanks for that, tm:  I'm blubbering right now.
Title: Re: Praying at work!
Post by: OH MY WORLD! on July 13, 2015, 12:54:58 AM
ippster,
Why would i need a fire break? Duh. Please google Calgary and get an education. I live on the edge of the plains. Any forest fire would fizzle out before it got within 10 miles of our city. Grass fires we get, cause it's the PLAINS. Still don't need a chopper for that. A tractor and cultivator I can drive, a chopper, I can't fly nor have I ever chopped a tree.
Title: Re: Praying at work!
Post by: Owlswing on July 13, 2015, 09:11:34 AM
Maybe someone should explain to our trans-atlantic cousin exactly what a "chopper" is in British slang.
Title: Re: Praying at work!
Post by: Owlswing on July 13, 2015, 11:39:19 AM
ippster,
Why would i need a fire break? Duh. Please google Calgary and get an education. I live on the edge of the plains. Any forest fire would fizzle out before it got within 10 miles of our city. Grass fires we get, cause it's the PLAINS. Still don't need a chopper for that. A tractor and cultivator I can drive, a chopper, I can't fly nor have I ever chopped a tree.

Chopper is slang for helicopter.

😀

In one incarnation - yes, not in the way that it appies in the instance that I was talking about.
Title: Re: Praying at work!
Post by: BashfulAnthony on July 13, 2015, 12:57:31 PM
Is 'my Rusty' a euphemism? LOL

No, he was my precious dog, who died last August.

Sorry to hear about your Dog, BA.

Thank you for that, Rose.  It's a year in August, but it's still very raw.
Title: Re: Praying at work!
Post by: ippy on July 13, 2015, 03:09:20 PM
ippster,
Why would i need a fire break? Duh. Please google Calgary and get an education. I live on the edge of the plains. Any forest fire would fizzle out before it got within 10 miles of our city. Grass fires we get, cause it's the PLAINS. Still don't need a chopper for that. A tractor and cultivator I can drive, a chopper, I can't fly nor have I ever chopped a tree.

"nor have I ever chopped a tree".

And you've got the cheek to call yourself a Canadian.

ippy
Title: Re: Praying at work!
Post by: ippy on July 13, 2015, 03:14:53 PM
ippster,
Why would i need a fire break? Duh. Please google Calgary and get an education. I live on the edge of the plains. Any forest fire would fizzle out before it got within 10 miles of our city. Grass fires we get, cause it's the PLAINS. Still don't need a chopper for that. A tractor and cultivator I can drive, a chopper, I can't fly nor have I ever chopped a tree.

Chopper is slang for helicopter.

😀

It's also another name for an axe or an adze.

Rose have you seen any of the "Carry On" films?

ippy

PS Just a thought did you hear about the chap that got engaged to a contortionist; she broke it off. Carry On films?
Title: Re: Praying at work!
Post by: Owlswing on July 13, 2015, 03:48:02 PM
ippster,
Why would i need a fire break? Duh. Please google Calgary and get an education. I live on the edge of the plains. Any forest fire would fizzle out before it got within 10 miles of our city. Grass fires we get, cause it's the PLAINS. Still don't need a chopper for that. A tractor and cultivator I can drive, a chopper, I can't fly nor have I ever chopped a tree.

Chopper is slang for helicopter.

😀

It's also another name for an axe or an adze.

Rose have you seen any of the "Carry On" films?

ippy

PS Just a thought did you hear about the chap that got engaged to a contortionist; she broke it off. Carry On films?

Your last is the connection that applies when referring to JC - coming a cropper with his chopper and ruining his chances of fatherhood!
Title: Re: Praying at work!
Post by: OH MY WORLD! on July 13, 2015, 09:07:35 PM
You are so slow today Matty. I used chopper in both senses. Why? Because I can and I enjoyed it.  And just to educate you Matty, here be another chopper. Too funny you.

http://images6.fanpop.com/image/photos/32500000/TRUMP-CUSTOM-CHOPPER-motorcycles-32567497-686-457.jpg

Now a fire around my city would look like this one south of my city. Chopper as in an axe won't work, you will notice no trees to chop. But the good news is choppers for water bombing the fire does work. Do you get it yet Matty or do you need a cookie and a nap.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8wSQAzR978c

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VkQNIND19ao
Title: Re: Praying at work!
Post by: ippy on July 13, 2015, 11:04:35 PM
You are so slow today Matty. I used chopper in both senses. Why? Because I can and I enjoyed it.  And just to educate you Matty, here be another chopper. Too funny you.

http://images6.fanpop.com/image/photos/32500000/TRUMP-CUSTOM-CHOPPER-motorcycles-32567497-686-457.jpg

Now a fire around my city would look like this one south of my city. Chopper as in an axe won't work, you will notice no trees to chop. But the good news is choppers for water bombing the fire does work. Do you get it yet Matty or do you need a cookie and a nap.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8wSQAzR978c

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VkQNIND19ao

Lots of trees where the choppers were taking on water, looks like you've missed those ones woody.

ippy
Title: Re: Praying at work!
Post by: OH MY WORLD! on July 14, 2015, 12:20:48 AM
No ippy, you go ahead to Perth with your murdering chopper, I'll stay right here. Duh, pay attention, did you not read that chopper video is from Perth Australia? A fence post would clue in quicker than you and matty. Too funny you Mr. Chopper Check man.
Title: Re: Praying at work!
Post by: ippy on July 14, 2015, 08:56:29 AM
No ippy, you go ahead to Perth with your murdering chopper, I'll stay right here. Duh, pay attention, did you not read that chopper video is from Perth Australia? A fence post would clue in quicker than you and matty. Too funny you Mr. Chopper Check man.

A fence post Woody, where did that come from?

ippy
Title: Re: Praying at work!
Post by: OH MY WORLD! on July 14, 2015, 03:17:29 PM
Well it would probably be from Canada. Canada having to supply you yet again. You need to get on your knees and thank me for what we do for you treeless ones Ippy.

http://www.canadiangeographic.ca/magazine/jf11/canadian_trees_british_forests.asp