Hilary, Vivien/Vivian and Evelyn are boys' and girls' names. You don't come across men called Evelyn often if ever (Evelyn Waugh of course), but I've known a male Hilary and Vivien.
I don't let one or two w*****s put me off the name 'Jeremy', know & have know too many good Jeremys.
Darth is an unusual & interesting name, uncommon too Jeremy, is it 'foreign'?
