R&E will close on the 28th December - see this thread. https://www.religionethics.co.uk/index.php?topic=22932.0#new
Putting my mod hat on, I will point out that one of the things we do act on is any direct questioning of a poster's mental state. Removing it and replacing it on my capacious imaginary hatstand, the use of such terms can move from mild so extreme. I think that 'oddballs' can simply be read as not the norm, rather than anything else so I read Vlad as unjustified in the comparison on that occasion. But I don't see the comparison he made as being a crass one as a general point.
I take exception to that highly unpleasant comment, my adopted son has Down's Syndrome, a nicer person you couldn't wish to meet. You have overstepped the mark this time.
Vlad didn't suggest otherwise. He was criticising those who would make fun of Down's people.