Completely misunderstands my point, which isn't about me but about a fundamental line being crossed.
To my mind there is a fundamental difference between:
A). Accepting what we reveal about ourselves to be true, in other words we are who we say we are (e.g. christian, muslim, atheist, a woman, professor, has cancer, supports Arsenal, lives in India, lives in Hemel Hempstead etc, etc) even if at time we may find the arguments we make ridiculous, think faith/non-faith claims are ridiculous (yes, VG atheists get ridiculed here too), that someone's political position is ridiculous, their profession is ridiculous, the team someone supports is ridiculous and most notably that Hemel Hempstead, with its preposterous 'magic roundabout' is ridiculous.
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B). Claiming that what we have chosen to reveal about ourselves is a lie, in other words refusing to believe that we are who we say we are (e.g. that despite what we say that we aren't christian, muslim, atheist, a woman, isn't a professor, don't have cancer, don't live in India or Hemel Hempstead etc, etc) . This effectively means you are claiming that our fundamental existence on this MB is a lie and a deceit.
Claiming it is a lie would be a positive claim - e.g. like 'God does not exist'. If I claimed that you were not a professor then I would need to substantiate it for my claim to be taken seriously. I have not claimed that you are not a professor.
On the other hand, in the absence of evidence other than your anonymous MB persona, and not having had a face-to-face experience of you, if I say I don't hold the belief that you are a Professor, or if I say that I am agnostic about whether you are a professor, then I have not made a positive claim, and the burden of proof is not with me.
Isn't that how it works? I thought the atheists on here said that in their opinion this is the best approach for critical thinking and would be their approach to everything in life including gods. Therefore, I am prepared to accept that you really, really believe you are a professor.
Are you asking me to go further and believe you are a professor as an act of faith, in the absence of evidence? I'll consider trying it and let you know if I manage it. It's true that I take that approach with god, but in the case of god I had a personal experience of reading some text in the Quran that led to that belief as an act of faith.
Unfortunately, your posts on this MB don't seem to have the same effect on me as the Quran did....some of them actually have the opposite effect, whereby I think someone who claims to be expert in a field related to ethics would not keep jumping to conclusions and making accusations based on knee-jerk assumptions they have made e.g. simply because the post they are responding to was written by a theist.
Or at the very least, even if they initially did make a knee-jerk assumption or interpretation, their "expertise" in ethics would mean they would pause and consider alternative interpretations, rather than post a response based on their knee-jerk assumption, and then go on to make accusations of dishonesty against the other poster.
That's where the line is crossed - I think it is pretty well the most fundamental aspect of this, and similar, MBs is that we accept what others reveal about themselves to be true - effectively that they are who they say they are. Once we have lost that acceptance that we are who we say we are (to the extent of the things we choose to reveal about ourselves) then the most fundamental element of trust and respect which makes MBs like this function is lost.
Maybe for you.
I have been on this MB for years, and before that on the BBC board for a while, and I do not unquestioningly accept anecdotes that people write
if they try to use the anecdote to say their view carries more weight than another poster's view in a discussion . On the other hand, I probably would accept it as an interesting bit of information that makes me think because there is no risk to taking it at face-value.
ETA: Your view of a "fundamental line being crossed" sounds like special pleading to me.
Nevertheless, for the sake of moving this discussion away from you personally and because it seems to really, really matter to you for some reason (no idea why), if you say you are a professor I can try to accept your assertion at face-value having no evidence whether it is true. I can try because it makes no difference to me if you are a professor, an imam or a self-employed fortune-teller.
But, if you say you are an expert and therefore your post carries more weight I am not prepared to accept that your post or opinions or views carry more weight just based on your say so. Whether your opinion carries weight will depend on the strength of your argument.
Oh and I'm about to reveal more information about me (which I trust will be accepted to be true) as an explanation why I won't be posting here again for a few days. I am about to get on the road to Liverpool to help my younger son move into his first bought flat. Very exciting for him. His bother is also helping and yesterday both were at the Liverpool celebration although fortunately not too close to the awful incident. However it has left us all rather shocked and those who know me well from these MB will understand that an awful incident associated with Liverpool FC is an important moment in my own journey to accepting that I didn't believe in god. Fortunately yesterday no-one died.
Sorry you went through that and glad you and your family were not physically hurt.