When you think about it, this is unbelievable. Everybody was so caught up in the question of "should we be in the EU?" that nobody, neither Leaver nor Remainer, seems to have asked the question "what should we do instead?" Looking back on it, the idea of having a vote on leaving the EU without a clear idea of what we are going to do next is utterly stupid.
Hindsight, I love it.
I think a lot of people were asking 'what does Brexit actually look like' - but it isn't an easy question, it doesn't have an easy answer so the media narrative ignored it.
So the 48% remainers were clear what they were for (being in the EU) the 52% leavers were clear what they were against (being in the EU - kind of ish) but were a very, very broad church as to what they were for. Anything from like Norway so uber-isolationist xenophobia).
My preference would be as follows:
1. Check whether triggering article 50 can be reversed once it has been done. Probably given that it has to be triggered by the member state themselves and probably can by revoked prior to the point of formal exit.
2. If 1 is OK, then trigger article 50.
3. Negotiate with the EU on the basis of getting what the government perceives is the best deal.
4. Finalise those negotiations so that there is a very, very clear view on what Brexit actually is - so for example being a member of the EEA. Agree that deal formally in parliament as the settled view on the post-Brexit arrangement.
5. Hold a second referendum asking the public to chose between the negotiated Brexit deal or remaining a member.
6. If the vote is for the Brexit deal, accept that deal leave EU
7. If the public prefer to be in the EU rather than the actual Brexit deal, withdraw article 50 - remain in EU.
There would probably need to be a general election somewhere there too.