Seems like a slam dunk for me. If the facts are as the article states, she's definitely in the frame for incitement to violence, if not incitement to commit murder.
The article is muddled in many ways:
“Women can be just as violent as men” is the common call of the Men’s Rights Activist. While statistics don’t bear this out – there are male perpetrators for 81 per cent of all violent crime and 99 per cent of all sexual violence
I'm not a massive fan of MRA's but in this case, the statistics quoted by the article bear out their statement - unless it is the assertion of the authors that the other 19% of violent crime is committed by elves.
Furthermore, it is silly to say that the murderer is a being cast as a victim: the jury said he is a murderer and he is now serving a life sentence. Bramley will not get a life sentence because all she is guilty of is incitement to cause common assault. We know this because she pled guilty to that charge. So even she thinks she was trying to goad him into violence, although perhaps not murder.