That is just your belief. There is no evidence that these are all just random chance driven happenings. You are assuming that.
There is absolutely no evidence for anything else and once we have replication with variation and inheritance, natural selection takes over and is perfectly capable of explaining all we see.
Natural Selection is just a metaphor. It is a term that can be used anywhere. A 'all in one' solution for everything.
Natural selection is not a metaphor. Your total ignorance of the subject, coupled with a studiously closed-minded and stubborn refusal to learn anything about it, is once again on prominent display.
Your idea assumes that survival is important to begin with, but you take it for granted as just a natural fact of life.
Nonsense. As has been explained - once we have replication with variation and inheritance, those replicators that are better at surviving (through random variation) will be the ones that survive and pass the traits one. The process continues from generation to generation until all that is left is replicators that are very good at surviving.
This is perhaps one of the most blindingly obvious and simple examples of natural selection there is. It's really, really simple and completely explains exactly why all organisms have a "survival instinct".
I am also assuming that survival is important to begin with but prefer to ask the question...why? Why do organisms survive? What is it that drives this instinct? What survives in spite of so many organisms and species going extinct?
See above. The answer is simple and blindingly obvious.