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Sriram

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What makes us happy??
« on: December 07, 2019, 07:03:37 AM »
Hi everyone,

Here is a BBC video on certain myths about happiness.

https://www.bbc.com/reel/video/p070zpn8/is-happy-ever-after-just-a-myth-

Apparently...its not any of these things...

'money...status...falling in love...marriage...having children...'

What do you think...?

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Re: What makes us happy??
« Reply #1 on: December 07, 2019, 02:23:16 PM »
I couldn't get the link to work.

The things that make me content are:-

My wonderful family :)
My hobbies
My Kindle
Trying to help others, whenever I can.
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Re: What makes us happy??
« Reply #2 on: December 07, 2019, 03:03:28 PM »
Perhaps this link will work:-  https://www.bbc.com/reel/video/p070zpn8/is-happy-ever-after-just-a-myth-

Sririam, the guy doesn't actually say very much that hasn't been said before. Happiness is relative and experiences are unique to each of us. Nobody can be happy all of the time but we can be content.
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Re: What makes us happy??
« Reply #3 on: December 07, 2019, 04:50:15 PM »
Perhaps this link will work:-  https://www.bbc.com/reel/video/p070zpn8/is-happy-ever-after-just-a-myth-

Sririam, the guy doesn't actually say very much that hasn't been said before. Happiness is relative and experiences are unique to each of us. Nobody can be happy all of the time but we can be content.

I too think content is a better word to use.
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Re: What makes us happy??
« Reply #4 on: December 07, 2019, 05:40:34 PM »
I too think content is a better word to use.

I had one and a half mashed pickled walnut sandwiches for breakfast today result happiness, made with real white bread.
 
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Re: What makes us happy??
« Reply #5 on: December 07, 2019, 05:46:46 PM »
Steady on Ips!
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Re: What makes us happy??
« Reply #6 on: December 07, 2019, 06:09:16 PM »
Steady on Ips!


I did check with the local police before I crushed my walnuts, apparently it was legal.

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Re: What makes us happy??
« Reply #7 on: December 08, 2019, 10:30:33 AM »

I did check with the local police before I crushed my walnuts, apparently it was legal.

Regards, ippy.

It's crushing other folks' nuts that's likely to get you into trouble.

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Re: What makes us happy??
« Reply #8 on: December 08, 2019, 10:51:52 AM »
It's crushing other folks' nuts that's likely to get you into trouble.

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Re: What makes us happy??
« Reply #9 on: December 08, 2019, 11:50:40 AM »
Beans and cheese on toast.
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Re: What makes us happy??
« Reply #10 on: December 08, 2019, 01:47:01 PM »
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Re: What makes us happy??
« Reply #11 on: December 08, 2019, 01:57:49 PM »
Motorcycles: I can't believe the guy in the link never mentioned motorcycles.

Every home should have one!

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Re: What makes us happy??
« Reply #12 on: December 08, 2019, 02:09:28 PM »
Motorcycles: I can't believe the guy in the link never mentioned motorcycles.

Every home should have one!

Definitely NOT!  :P
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Re: What makes us happy??
« Reply #13 on: December 08, 2019, 02:15:55 PM »
Usually each struggle or challenge makes me temporarily unhappy and overcoming (or abandoning if I can't figure out a way to overcome it) each struggle or challenge makes me temporarily happy.

Not sure that challenges such as serious threats of immediate dangerous levels of violence, long-term hunger and thirst that can't be alleviated, major physical or mental ill health, homelessness, no friends or family to talk to, debt that I have no prospect of settling can be classed as leading to happiness. But then again, having never experienced the latter 5 examples I can only go by what people who have experienced this stuff say and some people view those experiences in a positive light.

Being punched in the stomach and not being winded or hurt makes me happy - it means the past kick-boxing and gym sessions have not been wasted. Finishing Minutes and Newsletters makes me happy. An amazing view and the sun shining makes me really happy. Learning how to do something I could not do before or learning new useful information makes me really happy.
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Re: What makes us happy??
« Reply #14 on: December 08, 2019, 03:13:37 PM »
Weasels.

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Re: What makes us happy??
« Reply #15 on: December 08, 2019, 03:16:56 PM »
Parrots.  There are 000s in my area of London, so I am often happy.
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Re: What makes us happy??
« Reply #16 on: December 08, 2019, 05:34:37 PM »
Motorcycles: I can't believe the guy in the link never mentioned motorcycles.

Every home should have one!

Had three Sunbeam S sevens and a Triumph Thunderbird and had a Honda 90 runabout over a period of time as a young man and I think you'll find unless anyone has had that pleasure of solo road biking there's very little understanding of the experience; their loss.

Cars out of necessity and bikes for pleasure, even though it's more dangerous than driving a car.

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Re: What makes us happy??
« Reply #17 on: December 08, 2019, 09:15:03 PM »
I had chicken curry with rice and apple and pear chutney tonight, made with chicken breast, onion, garlic, tommy toes, hot curry powder, and home-made damson wine. It was luvverly.
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« Reply #18 on: December 08, 2019, 09:16:33 PM »
Beans and cheese on toast.
You sybaritic degenerate!
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Re: What makes us happy??
« Reply #19 on: December 08, 2019, 10:52:26 PM »
FREEDOM 😎

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Dopamine

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