Anecdote time.
Our friends in the US who I have previously spoken of, have a daughter who is currently engaged to a Black man, it is only now that my friend Maryann has appreciated the different attitude that the police have to the black community.
As an example her daughters boyfriend is stopped more than would seem necessary by the police - 4 times in the last 4 years. He is not poor, he is a teacher. And yet he still gets stopped more than his girlfriend who is also a teacher or indeed her brother who is a salesman of mobile homes. The brother and sister are both white of course.
In addition the boyfriend when stopped goes through a whole procedure he was taught to do by his parents. Tell the police you are reaching into the glove compartment to reach for your driving licence. Tell them you are opening the door even though the police have asked you to do that.
Whilst I acknowledge that these matters are seldom simple and lots of factors intersect to cause these societal issues, I would suggest that racism itself is not a simple issue and it would be unwise to play down it's impact in this particular instance.
This colour thing worked in favour of my adopted mixed race son, he sold his car and somebody was seen driving his car after he had sold it and whoever it was had been detected driving without insurance.
They hadn't received the change of ownership slip at the D V L A, we then had two Policemen on our doorstep looking for my son, we don't think of him a anything else than he is, Fred, not his real name, his ID occurred to me and I said to these Policemen you do know he's mixed race the they immediately were able to apologise for bothering us and off they went.
I'd like to add, this football chap that lost his job for using racist terms, just taking, coloured when describing people, I'm only referring to his use of the word 'coloured', I've asked both of my sons about this and neither they or I can see anything racist in this term, I'll apologise in advance if I'm offending anybody in writing this.
If it is offensive to use coloured as a term to describe people with darker skins than most Europeans could somebody tell me why?
At the moment this one has gone right over my head and I want to use the right words in this area because the very last thing I would want to do is cause any offence.
My youngest son has just said to me it can be tone of voice when using any of these terms and he acts accordingly.
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