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He didn't say you did. That bit of Udayana's posts was a general observation.Detest, hate, loathe, abhor, whatever (they all mean the same), but I didn't think you detested the woman, only her views & I said that. Neither did I think your original remark about decking her (or whatever word you used), was meant seriously.So I don't believe I misunderstood you. You may have misunderstood me but who cares?
I think "hilarious" might be over-egging it but it's faintly amusing. At least I find it faintly amusing when i talk about punching people I am never going to actually punch.
Having had a friend who was killed by one punch, maybe I find your idea of humour uninteresting.